Wedding Officiant & Pre-Marital Coach

Clarity. Connection. Celebration.

Whether you’re preparing to say “I do” or rediscovering who you are, I’m here to walk with you — with presence, purpose, and a little bit of humor.

Ceremonies That Feel Like You

As a certified officiant, I create custom ceremonies that are deeply personal, inclusive, and unforgettable. From intimate elopements to full celebrations, your love deserves to be honored with care and authenticity.

Your story is worth more than a template. Let’s make it memorable.

Coaching That Grounds and Guides You

With over 20 years of experience, I support individuals and couples in building deeper self-awareness, healthier communication, and stronger relationships.

We’ll get to the heart of what matters — at your pace, on your terms.

About Me

I’m XAN — a Certified Coach, Wedding Officiant, and spiritual misfit (recovering Protestant, practicing Buddhist, and occasionally sarcastic Stoic). My work blends insight, humor, and grounded presence to help people thrive in love, life, and transition.

Why Work With Me

I bring more than training — I bring lived experience, humor, and heart. As a recovering Protestant and practicing Buddhist, I offer a perspective that is open-minded, grounded, and deeply respectful of all beliefs and backgrounds.

I believe in creating spaces where people feel seen, safe, and supported. Whether we’re planning a ceremony or working through personal growth, you’ll find me present, honest, and always committed to your transformation and success.

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What My Clients Say

"XAN made our wedding ceremony so personal and meaningful. They took the time to really get to know us, and it showed in every word. We received so many compliments on how heartfelt and ‘us’ the ceremony felt."

"Before our sessions with XAN, we were struggling to communicate clearly. Their coaching helped us feel more connected and confident about our future together. We’re entering our marriage with clarity and tools we’ll use forever."

"Working with XAN was a gift. Their coaching helped me move through a period of deep transition with grace and self-trust. I felt truly seen, without judgment, and more aligned with my purpose than ever before."

Let’s Start Your Journey

Whether you’re preparing for a wedding, seeking support in your personal life, or curious about what’s next — I’d love to connect.