About Us

Wedding Officiant & Pre-Marital Coach

“A Stoic with a Buddhist attitude.”

Hi, I’m XAN — and I help people create meaningful beginnings, whether they’re standing at the altar or standing at a turning point in their lives.

With over 20 years of coaching experience and 4 years of officiating, I’ve had the honor of guiding individuals and couples through some of life’s most transformative moments. My work is rooted in presence, humor, and genuine connection — because I believe deep transformation doesn’t have to be heavy, and celebration doesn’t have to be superficial.

My Approach

I bring a unique blend of life coaching, ceremony creation, and spiritual perspective to every session and ceremony. As a recovering Protestant and a practicing Buddhist, I hold space with a deep respect for all beliefs — religious, spiritual, secular, or undefined. My coaching and officiating are built on the same foundation: helping you connect to what’s true and meaningful to you. Clients often describe me as calm, grounded, and direct — someone who listens deeply, challenges gently, and always brings a bit of lightness to even the most serious topics. My philosophy? Clarity is powerful. Connection is sacred. And laughter is healing.

A Little More About Me

Certified Coach & Licensed Wedding Officiant
20+ years experience in personal development and relationship work
Advocate for conscious communication and emotional resilience
Passionate about holding space for people from all walks of life
Equal parts grounded, spiritual, and a little sarcastic (in a loving way)

Let’s Connect

Thank you for taking the time to learn a bit about me. If you feel called to work together — whether for a ceremony or a coaching session — I’d love to hear from you.

About Us

Wedding Officiant & Pre-Marital Coach

“A Stoic with a Buddhist attitude.”

My Approach

A Little More About Me

Let’s Connect

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