Services

Offered by XAN Wedding Officiant and Pre-Marital Coach

Empowering individuals. Celebrating love. Holding space for transformation.

At XAN Wedding Officiant and Pre-Marital Coach, I provide compassionate and personalized services that support your growth as an individual and as a couple. Whether you’re embarking on a journey of self-discovery, preparing for marriage, or seeking a meaningful ceremony, my role is to walk with you—offering insight, presence, and deep respect every step of the way.

Pre-Marital & Life Coaching

Rediscover who you are. Strengthen who you are becoming—together or alone.

With over 20 years of coaching experience, I specialize in helping people clarify their values, develop self-awareness, and build stronger, more authentic relationships—with themselves and their partners. My approach integrates mindfulness, humor, and soul-level inquiry, blending lived wisdom with practical tools.

What I Offer:

Pre-Marital Coaching

Build a strong emotional foundation before saying “I do.” We’ll explore communication, conflict resolution, expectations, shared values, and more to help you both feel connected and confident in your commitment.

Individual Coaching

Whether you’re navigating life transitions, healing from spiritual or emotional wounds, or simply seeking clarity, our sessions are a space to reconnect with your true self and inner strength.

Relationship & Couples Coaching

Support for couples navigating change, deepening their connection, or working through challenges—with an emphasis on compassionate communication and mutual growth.

Wedding & Ceremony Officiating

More than just the words. A ceremony that feels like you.

As a certified and experienced officiant, I create custom ceremonies that reflect your personality, love story, and values—whether you’re spiritual, secular, or somewhere in between. My goal is to craft and lead a moment that is meaningful, memorable, and entirely your own.

Officiant Services Include:

Weddings

Personal, heartfelt ceremonies for couples of all backgrounds

Commitment Ceremonies

For couples who want to celebrate their bond without legal formalities

Vow Renewals

A beautiful re-commitment filled with reflection and love

Spiritual or Non-Traditional Ceremonies

Mindful, inclusive, and fully customized to your beliefs and intentions

A Personal Touch from XAN

My practice blends my lived experience as a recovering Protestant and practicing Buddhist with over two decades of coaching insight. People often say I bring a calm presence, a sharp sense of humor, and a deep sense of care—like a Stoic with a Buddhist attitude.

Whether we’re working through inner transformation or preparing for your wedding day, I will meet you exactly where you are—with empathy, honesty, and an open heart.

Let’s Begin

You don’t have to figure it all out on your own. I’m here to listen, guide, and co-create something meaningful with you.